About The Book

Some of the most knowledgeable resources on pediatric health, practical parenting and child development from around the world have gathered to create The Triumphant Child: A Practical Guide for Raising Two, Three and Four Year Olds.

This book is a fresh new approach to parenting based on traditional principles. It is a must-have for all moms, dads and grandparents as they go about their role of raising their young children.

Dr. Olson Huff MD believes that parents want the very best for their children and seek in every way possible the guidance and support necessary to achieve it.

This is why Dr. Huff and his daughter-in-law, Nicole Rawson-Huff have compiled and edited these useful and accurate facts and gems of information for raising two, three and four year olds. These gems are further supported by parent stories and practical parenting tips throughout the book.

Child development specialist, Nicole Rawson-Huff, explains that 'a triumphant child is resilient, confident, self aware, knows their boundaries and shows concern for others'.
A triumphant child:

  • Has an enthusiasm for life and positive outlook whatever their circumstances
  • Is a persistent and creative problem solver
  • Is eager to learn and succeed
  • Feels special and knows they are loveable - has good self-esteem and has a strong sense of personal and family identity and their place in the world
  • Is willing to try and willing to risk making mistakes in order to learn
  • Is caring towards others and is beginning to develop a sense of empathy
  • Is motivated to communicate their ideas, feelings and stories in a variety of ways.
  • Has a sense of independence and autonomy
  • Is flexible and leaning to cope with stress and change
  • Has a developing sense of and respect for boundaries
What does parenting a triumphant child mean?
Parenting a triumphant child means:
  • Creating a loving, positive environment – loving and believing in your child, yourself and your family unconditionally.
  • Letting your child make mistakes, but supporting them when they need help.
  • Being caring and empathetic towards your child and others.
  • Enjoys and makes the most of their time with their children.
  • Fosters their child’s self-esteem by giving them developmentally appropriate responsibilities.
  • Listen actively and communicate effectively with your child.
  • Discipline their children in a way that fosters self-discipline and self-esteem.
  • Helping children to set realistic goals and have realistic expectations.
  • Having the wisdom to create developmentally appropriate boundaries.
America as we have known it has changed. For many, concerns of repaying mortgages are second only to the worry about those that depend on them … their children. As we endure these times of uncertainty and change, we need more than ever to find ways to raise resilient children that may triumph over these difficult times.

A group of leading experts, in the field of child health and development, believe that there are very practical and relevant skills and steps parents can use every day that will encourage children to be self-confident and resilient. This allows parents to raise a triumphant child who can take on what the world is going to throw at them, has a good sense of self and not only survives, but thrives.

On a mission to assist parents to do just this, is leading US Pediatrician Dr. Olson Huff. Together with his daughter-in-law and child development specialist, Nicole Rawson-Huff, and a team of five other experts, Olson and Nicole have compiled a practical guidebook, like no other. Olson and Nicole's vision started in 1997 when the two developed a series of radio messages called 'The One Minute Parent'. The popular program provided practical tips on raising children, child health and development, and was successfully syndicated throughout North Carolina.

For many years, friends and colleagues urged and Nicole to publish these tips in a book for parents. In September 2008, they decided to go one-step further by launching a new parenting website called Sixty Second Parent (www.sixtysecondparent.com). The dynamic and innovative site provides avenues for bringing together many experts in the field of child health and development, where they share their knowledge and connect with parents through online forums. The success of the website has fuelled Olson and Nicole's passion for making a positive difference to the lives of parents and has lead to the development of the first book in a series, called The Triumphant Child (www.thetriumphantchild.com).

In their years of talking and listening to parents about raising children, Dr. Huff and Nicole observed that parents craved information containing three key elements:

  1. Expert knowledge and advice;
  2. Practical tips and hints that can be accessed quickly; and
  3. Stories from other parents.

Using this knowledge, The Triumphant Child: A Practical Guide to Raising Two, Three, and Four Year Olds, offers expert advice, practical tips and real life parenting stories. The book provides case studies where parents can read about what works and what doesn’t from other parents who have experienced and overcome daily challenges such as routines, aggressive behavior, eating difficulties, sibling rivalry, media’s affect on young children, divorce, economic crisis, fears, anxieties and general child health and development issues.

Written with love and care as its core principle, The Triumphant Child offers a full scope of strategies for positively taking on the challenges and celebrating the successes that children present to parents each day.
Dr. Olson Huff and his daughter-in-law, Nicole Rawson-Huff, have done the parents of young children a great service, by bringing together experts in the field to speak to the practical daily issues of rearing children in their most formative years. I agree with the authors that most parents love their children and want what is best for them.  However, many of those parents genuinely don't know 'what is best'.  After all, the child did not come with a parent's manual.  Many of those who have sought to provide such a manual have written in such academic terms that the average parent has gotten lost in the linguistics. The Triumphant Child is not designed to be a comprehensive manual, but it does give clear, understandable, information of the major issues that concern parents of two, three and four year olds.
 
The reader will find insight in how children develop, the value of routines, basic parenting skills, typical fears which children experience, how to respond to common 'attention getting' behavior, and what to do about media exposure. Every parent I know would welcome a book like that; and I think they will.
Gary D. Chapman, Ph.D.
Author of The Five Love Languages of Children and The Five Love Languages
Along with six  knowledgeable colleagues, renowned pediatrician Dr. Olson Huff and his daughter-in-law, Nicole Rawson-Huff have assembled a series of seven chapters to assist parents in anticipating and understanding the developmental issues facing their young children from ages two through four years. The author of each chapter has clearly portrayed the challenges in physical, emotional and intellectual development, the requisite skills required in parenting, the management of routines, the insecurities associated with the evolution of changes as well as the fears and anxieties generated by them, and the potential threats of unselected media (TV, computer, cinema, electronic games). Examples drawn from the authors’ own families as well as others whom they have counseled are inserted as relevant illustrations.

This is a publication of value for young parents, both to be read in its entirety in advance, and then to be consulted as the individual situations are confronted in their children’s maturation. The presentations are clear and the instructions and suggestions are realistic and practical.  Although the emphasis is on the challenges, Dr. Huff and Nicole Rawson-Huff are especially emphatic in calling clear attention to the gratification and rewards of parenting. One can recommend this book with confidence that its content will be of great assistance and reassurance to young parents and thereby to their children.
Samuel Katz, MD
Professor Emeritus of Pediatrics, Duke University
The Triumphant Child is an indispensable resource filled with practical tips and time-tested wisdom from a panel of seasoned experts in pediatric health and development. Parents will feel fortunate to have this book at their fingertips every day as they tackle the challenges and celebrate the successes of raising young children. With so much useful information gathered in one place, The Triumphant Child will provide parents with quick answers and helpful advice, making life with two, three and four year olds easier, more rewarding and enjoyable, as well as more engaging for the child. I wish this book had been around when my kids were this age!
Sara Ellington
Co-Author of The Must-Have Mom Manual (Ballantine, 2009) and The Mommy Chronicles (Hay House, 2005)

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Parent Reviews

4 out of 5 stars | Scott and Gigi Robertson, North Carolina 
We have two year old twins and what we loved most about The Triumphant Child book is that we can really relate to the authors. They are moms and dads like us and their knowledge and experience has been so helpful for us.
5 out of 5 stars | Sharon Porter, Virginia 
Very topical, great read, good to have on my bookshelf as a reference book also.
4 out of 5 stars | Charmaine Strange, Kentucky 
At last, a book that doesn’t claim to have all the answers and yet, extremely useful and practical in assisting me to understand why my four year old behaves the way he does. Thank you.
5 out of 5 stars | Sarah Mulligan, Ohio 
Thank you Sixty Second Parent! Your expert advice has made me feel like I’m not alone with my challenges as a parent of an active three year old, and your practical tips have made my job far less stressful.
5 out of 5 stars | Amanda Rodriguez, New Market, MD 
I knew this book would be so for me because when it arrived #3 pointed to the cover child clad in his super hero garb and started saying #2's name over and over and over again. He thought it was a photo of his brother! I was slightly put off by the title, because I thought, "#2 is already Triumphant. Why would I want him to triumph any more? He always wins. I want to win. I need a book called the Triumphant Mother: A Practical Guide to Beating Two, Three, and Four Year Olds into Submission." Kidding! I would never beat a two year old. I realized that having a triumphant child is akin to being a triumphant parent (go figure). Basically, when your child is able to experience success in challenging situations and overcome various difficulties, you (and your kid) will be able to live a more fulfilling, joyful, and triumphant life. I'm down for that! I could definitely stand to up my triumph. Any book that can help me deal with picky eating (a documented problem), lying (a newly developed issue), sibling rivalry (the reason I avoid long stretches of "family time"), and anger (have you not noticed #2's temper) is a hit in my house. The book even discusses more touchy subjects (you know, the ones I avoid at all costs) like death, fear, and anxiety. It's a good read for anyone entering the terrible twos, particularly if you are scarred out of your mind about your ability to cope with them (and when I say cope, I really mean survive).
5 out of 5 stars | Angie Marion, Forest Hill, Maryland 
My kids are way older than this book is specified for, but even so, it still helped. I just wish I had had access to it back then! I've taken parenting classes previously and would recommend them to anyone. The same principles taught in those classes are outlined here in this book: How to teach and treat your children so that they will have high self-esteem and a high value of self-worth. How to be sympathetic towards others. How to be independent. We as parents want all of the above for our children, and more. And rightly so. What good is it to teach them everything except how to get out when they are old enough to? Okay... I'm kidding! Seriously, some children are just not wired the same as others and you will find yourself having to try new and creative ways with them. For example, my son is going to be 13 next month. He's independent, secure in himself, and he knows that he can come to me at any time with anything. My daughter just turned 10. She has ADHD. There's something in her, that no matter what, she's always unsure and needs reassurance. If I'm going to run out to the store for a minute, she'll say "Are you coming back?" and I have to say to her, "Yes, dear, I live here and I love you and I will be right back." She also needs more attention, such as telling her she's beautiful, smart, etc., because things don't come as easy for her as they do to most other people, including her brother. My son, on the other hand, he gets his affection from me, and he knows that I love him, and I tell him how smart, handsome, etc. he is, but he does not need it as much as my daughter does. Even though my kids are older, I still learned a few tips for raising them, especially with my daughter, because sometimes she doesn't act like she's 10. This book is a must read for anyone with children under 5, especially new parents!
5 out of 5 stars | Jamie Weitl, Olney, IL 
I found the book to be an easy and quick read with lots of useful information that was easy to understand and locate within the book. In the front of the book there are lists of age appropriate activities, books, and expectations for each year that the book discusses. The rest of the book is more general advice with great tips for weaning from the bottle and paci, preparing a toddler for a move or a new sibling (both interesting topics for me right now), and overall discipline advice.
5 out of 5 stars | Connie Roberts, Spring Hill, FL 
Although my children are older than the ages covered in The Triumphant Child, I learned a great deal from this book. I liked that there was no preaching and that the authors understood and even expected parents to make mistakes. The tips from other parents listed throughout the book were inspiring. The information is very detailed but you don’t need to remember everything. Having the book to look back on when you have a question is the perfect option though. Learning how to be a “triumphant parent” is the goal of this book. I learned about truly listening to my child, how to provide activities that keep them happy and that educate them and how to nurture their self-esteem. This information can be used for any aged child.
5 out of 5 stars | Shari Melia, San Diego, CA 
When my son was born, my mom jokingly said, "Too bad they don't come with instruction manuals!" Thankfully, there are doctors and child development experts out there who have taken up the challenge of writing down advice that not only is easy to understand, but can actually be put into practice. The Triumphant Child addresses common issues such as picky eaters, giving up the pacifier and the bottle, discipline, sibling rivalry, and even current issues such as the economic downturn and issues with electronic media. The tips are practical, do-able, and even clever. In fact, I loaned The Triumphant Child to a neighbor so she could read the section on giving up the pacifier as she was currently trying to wean her daughter of one. After reading the tip of arranging a visit from the Binkie Fairy, she was able to eliminate pacifier use within a matter of days without the struggle that she was formerly encountering. I appreciate not only the expert advice, but also the real world parent stories that are included in each chapter. This helps to assure us parents that we are not alone as others have gone through the same issues and it's nice to know what parents have done to resolve those issues. The book is easy to navigate by topic so you can simply flip to the chapter that is applicable at the moment. My recommendation though is to read this book in advance so not only can you look towards the future, but you can also help to prevent some problem issues from ever even surfacing.
5 out of 5 stars | Carrie Anne, Toronto, Ontario 
Even after having three kids (7, 5, 2), I find I still don’t have all the answers on this whole mother thing. Just when I seem to have things sorted out and under control with number one, number two comes along and all my previous knowledge seems to go out the window. Toss in number three and I feel like I’m starting from scratch. Then I read on Twittermoms about the book Triumphant Child: A Practical Guide to Raising Two, Three and Four Year Olds, I was intrigued. Leading US Pediatrician Dr. Olson Huff, together with his daughter-in-law and child development specialist, Nicole Rawson-Huff, wanted to provide parents with practical skills and steps to raising self-confident and resilient children. Working with five other experts they compiled this practical guidebook for parents. The content is organized to make it easy for parents to get the information they need, quickly. Important tips are highlighted in bullet points and the book’s structure makes it easy for parents to jump to a relevant content quickly. The book’s material is structured to work with parents, helping them raise their kids in a loving and caring environment. The book offers many suggestions without sounding preachy. In addition to the expert’s tips, real stories from real parents are also included to illustrate each scenario. I know that as a parent I sometimes feel that I must be doing something wrong and I’m the only one having these struggles with my kids. These anecdotes illustrate that I’m not alone, that other parents have encountered similar problems and questions and have found ways to deal with them in a non-threatening and caring way. Whether you have one child or five, Triumphant Child: A Practical Guide to Raising Two, Three and Four Year Olds is a worthwhile book to add to your personal parenting library.

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Dr. Olson Huff and his daughter-in-law, Nicole Rawson-Huff, have done the parents of young children a great service, by bringing together experts in the field to speak to the practical daily issues of..
Gary D. Chapman, Ph.D.
Author of The Five Love Languages of Children and The Five Love Languages

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